Friday, October 31, 2008

Our Friday Ritual




The kids just LOVE our Friday cleaning ritual. During the week, I wipe down the table, vacuum with the hand vac, and clean up spills and accidents. Every day, I also have the kids pick up the toys in the play room and any scattered throughout the house. Friday is the day for the bigger cleaning. I sanitize the toys, spray down the table and chairs (the kids wipe), they fight ovr using the hand vac, and then, I go over it with a real vacuum, and ALL of the toys and random items have to be put where they go. Then, Saturday is not so hard for me because half of the chores are done. I still have a week's worth of laundry at that point, mopping, cleaning the bathroom that they use all the time (and sanitizing, sanitizing, SANITIZING!!), washing the blankets and sheets, etc... You get the idea. I don't know why the kids enjoy this, but, hey, it works for me!!

Breakfast with Morgan and Nathan (Pop-Tarts)


Thursday, October 30, 2008

Twins~ 2 1/2 years apart






I love it when my two girls get to wear matching outfits!! I don't get out to buy them clothes much. For one thing, Morgan can wear Jaden's old clothes. For another thing, new clothes are so expensive. The last items that they got were matching shirts that I bought at Old Navy for $1!!! Unfortunately, they didn't have a big selection, but the girls each got about 5 or 6 shirts... Did I say they were $1??? LOL!! Anyway, Grandma Leslie bought them a few matching outfits (including these) and she even made them some matching flannel pajama bottoms that they got in the mail yesterday. They are so excited when they get new clothes, especially MATCHING outfits!! Unfortunately, Morgan's pants were too big for her (she is still only wearing 18 months in pants, but wearing 2T in shirts), so they didn't get to match pants. They loved wearing the matching shirts, jackets, and scarfs though!

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Happy 5th Wedding Anniversary!

This was our first Christmas photo as a new family. The picture was taken just a few days after our 1 year wedding anniversary.
Jaden tagged along to our 1st anniversary getaway not too far from home.
All of the celebrating wore her out, and she called it a night (at least for a few hours).
Today is our 5 year wedding anniversary. LeCount and I met and fell in love 8 1/2 years ago. We got married on his grandparents' 51st wedding anniversary! Two weeks later, we had our honeymoon in Key West, Florida. Two weeks after that I found out I was pregnant! We knew we were ready to be parents, we just didn't think it would happen that fast! So... We took our 2 month old baby girl with us on our 1st anniversary celebration. This year, I am not sure if we will get away without the kids or not... I know we aren't going to celebrate today because Jaden has her dance class, and I am still taking care of one more child until 8:00 PM... Maybe this weekend some time. But, it is still a milestone to be happy about :0)

Tuesday, October 28, 2008




After the clay was baked in the oven, the kids got to paint their items. Jaden had more items than any one because she made a lot of things with the clay including: a pumpkin, peas, carrots, a bowl, doughnut, flower necklace, and my favorite~ me! She made me out of clay, and she made my belly HUGE. I asked her why my belly was so big, and she said because it has a baby in it. I asked her what baby she was referring to, and she said, "me and Morgan!" Then, as if the big belly wasn't enough to draw your attention to my mid-section (at least the clay me), she added a big bump right in the middle. I asked her what that was, and she said, "Mom! That's your belly button!" LOL!! She cracks me up.
Morgan spent her time cutting the clay (before it was cooked). That is all she did. She just cut and cut and cut, and she kept saying, "look, mom, I'm cutting!" LOL!!! So, when it was time to paint, Jaden shared some of her pieces with Morgan. Otherwise, Morgan wouldn't have had anything to paint. The pieces she cut up were so small that you couldn't do anything with them.

Monday, October 27, 2008

Fun with clay~ DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME!









I made clay for the kids to play with last week. It is the kind that you make and then bake. They had a blast wth it, but t was EVERYWHERE!!! It was so bad, that over the weekend, I moved out all of the furniture and steam cleaned. At least the floors feel cleaner now with out all of that salty clay.
If you still want to try this at home, here is what you need:
3 cups flour
1 cup water
1 cup salt
2 tsp oil
Mix it all together with your hands until it is mixed well. After you make your items, bake them on a cookie sheet for 20 minutes at 350 degrees (it may take a longer or shorter amount of time depending on how thick the items are, so just check on them regularly to make sure they don't get too brown)
When I was younger, we did this activity with my mom around Christmas time. We made clay ornaments. You can do that by rolling out the clay and using Christmas cookie cutters to make the shapes you want. Then, make sure to make a hole to put string through, You have to make the hole before you bake it. Obviously, you don't put the string on until after it is baked, painted, and dry.

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Trying to take the place of Grandma Leslie



Morgan's baby hit the pavement when she ran into the curb.
We took a break at the halfway point
Morgan and DJ tried to get into the locked building.
We have a walking trail, but it would really be nice to have a playground in that big open area.

The neighbor's halloween decorations slowed down the kids. They stopped to gwak at all of them.

I finally took the kids for a walk on Friday. When Grandma Leslie comes to visit (usually once a week), the kids know that means they get to go for a walk. She takes them all out, and I get to breathe for awhile. Well, this week she couldn't come at all, and she won't be coming for at least the next 2 weeks... So, I have to figure out how to survivie 3 weeks (and possibly more) without Grandma!!! I decided to do what she usually does and we all got our strollers and headed outside. We took a 1 hour walk. Three of the girls pushed strollers, one girl pushed a shopping cart, and I pushed the double stroller with the two boys inside. It was nice, but very drawn out because they had to stop and look at EVERYTHING!! LOL!!!

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

The Stigma of HIV/AIDS can devastate a child

Can you imagine standing by as your child is teased by other children and even ADULTS? Or, watch as your child's "friends" are told they can no longer play with your child because he/she has HIV/AIDS? Or can you imagine not being able to get a job or losing your job because you are HIV+? Can you imagine your child watching as her father gets sick and dies of the same disease she has? Then, she watches her mother or siblings die of the same thing, and now, she sits back and waits until it happens to her (because what else can she do? She doesn't have access to the medicine she needs to stay alive). This is a reality that many children face!! Look at the beautiful faces above. Do you care that they have the medicine that they need? Do you care that they have the support of someone who loves them unconditionally? Someone that knows that they are a child, not a disease!!!! Who would stand up for your child, if they were in their shoes? Would you? Will you? All 4 of these precious gifts from God are in need of a friend that will not let them down. Will you be their strength?
Below is more information on the epidemic as it concerns the Dominican Republic (2 of the children above live there. The other 2 live in Ecuador):

HIV/AIDS affects everyone in every region and the response to the pandemic is global. HIV/AIDS is primarily a disease of poverty, its spread is intricately linked to the wider inequalities of poverty and gender, and it disproportionately affects the most marginal and disempowered. Once infected, people living with HIV and AIDS face further marginalization and discrimination because of the extreme stigma associated with the disease.

HIV/AIDS is heavily affecting the Caribbean region and its population. Only sub-Saharan Africa has a higher percentage of its population living with HIV/AIDS. According to UNAIDS, AIDS is now the leading cause of death in men and women between the ages of 15 and 44 living in the Caribbean. Infection rates currently stand at an estimated 2.3 %. However, despite successes in some countries, the epidemics in many Caribbean countries are growing. The total number of people living with the virus in the region is estimated to be 300,000, with 30,000 people becoming infected in 2005.

This report is based on the findings of Amnesty International (AI) research into the connection between human rights violations and HIV/AIDS in two countries in the Caribbean, the Dominican Republic and Guyana. It shows how abuses of civil, cultural, economic, political and social rights increase people's risk of HIV infection. It also shows how those affected by HIV/AIDS are denied their human rights.These findings highlight the close interrelationship between human rights and HIV/AIDS, a theme reflected in AI's recommendations which focus on the need for comprehensive rights-based approaches to HIV/AIDS in all areas of prevention, treatment, care and support.AI believes that this is a crucial time in the fight against HIV/AIDS.
Caribbean countries differ greatly in their culture, their political and legal systems and in the epidemiological development of HIV/AIDS. Most countries in the Caribbean are island states with small populations. This has implications for the particular dynamics of the HIV/AIDS pandemic.

People living with HIV/AIDS have to deal not only with the disease itself, but also with society's response to it and to them. All too often that response is characterized by fear, stigma and discrimination.
"Stigmatization occurs because of misinformation about transmission, fears of infection and the incurability of the disease, and its nature and degree are determined by a variety of social, cultural, political and economic factors, including the stage of the disease and the sex of the infected person."The UN Rapporteur on violence against women, its causes and consequences.
The consequences of stigma and discrimination for people affected by HIV/AIDS can be very far reaching.
"Not only are incidences of stigma and discrimination upsetting to the individual affected and may cause serious problems wherever they occur, but stigma and discrimination in health care settings can have particularly severe consequences. Fear of being identified as vulnerable to infection or as HIV-positive prevents many people from coming forward for voluntary testing, with the result that they are less likely to adopt measures to protect themselves and others from the virus. Inappropriate behavior towards those who are ill can lead to depression, social isolation and a worsening of their condition, which in turn places a greater burden on those who care for them. Furthermore, international conventions agree that discrimination against people with HIV/AIDS is often also an abuse of their human rights."
AI interviewed a wide range of people from policymakers, to activists to community members in rural areas. All without exception highlighted stigma and discrimination as obstacles to an effective response to HIV/AIDS. The stigma affects people in a whole variety of ways; it may discourage people from seeking information on prevention, as well as testing, counselling and treatment.

Poverty
"Ill health is both a cause and a consequence of poverty: sick people are more likely to become poor and the poor are more vulnerable to disease and disability." UN Special Rapporteur on the Right to Health.
Poverty is a significant problem in both the Dominican Republic and Guyana where 20 and 36 per cent of the population respectively live below the national poverty line. Treatment for HIV/AIDS is in theory available free of charge (without direct user fees) in both countries. However, AI repeatedly heard stories from people who were unable to access treatment and care because they could not afford the travel costs to get to clinics or hospitals, or they could not afford adequate food to take the medicines with.

Poverty and the lack of economic opportunities also affect the behaviour of young women and men, increasing their risk of HIV infection. While the number of women entering the labour market has increased over the past years, many women work in the informal sector, for example as domestics, where wages are very low or may largely consist of payments in kind, making it harder for women to support themselves.

As this report shows, people living with HIV/AIDS also face discrimination in the workplace. Some may lose their jobs after disclosing their status. Some employers force workers to take HIV tests, others test them without their knowledge or consent, in clear violation of human rights obligations and government guidelines, which stipulate that testing should be voluntary and with full consent of the testee. In some cases, people living with HIV/AIDS are unable to find work because of their status; in others, employment may be conditional on a negative HIV test. Similarly, children and adolescents might face discrimination in their access to education, based on their perceived or actual HIV status. If no mechanisms are available to allow people to challenge such discrimination then their rights are further violated by denying them access to justice.

*The Dominican Republic has a population of 8 million people, some 25 per cent of whom live below the national poverty line.
*According to UNAIDS, 88,000 people --1.7 per cent of the population-- in the Dominican Republic are living with HIV/AIDS, of which it is estimated that between 10-15,000 people need antiretroviral treatment. Some 2,700 people living with HIV/AIDS were receiving these medicines at the beginning of 2006...(What about the other 7,000-12,000 people?)
*HIV/AIDS is now the leading cause of death in women of reproductive age in the Dominican Republic
*HIV/AIDS infection rates are also particularly high in bateyes which are predominately populated by Haitian migrants or Dominicans of Haitian descent.
(For a more extensive report, here is the link:http://www.amnestyusa.org/document.php?lang=e&id=ENGAMR010022006 )

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Paper Bag Pumpkins






Materials Needed:
• One brown paper lunch bag
• two rubber bands
• green pipe cleaner
• orange acrylic or tempera paint
• newspaper
• paint brush or sponge
• scissors
Directions:
1. Cut bottom off of lunch bag, leaving a tube-like shape.
2. Gather the bottom of the bag together evenly. Put a rubber band
about 1 inch from the bottom.
3. Turn bag inside out and flatten out bottom.
4. Stuff bag with newspaper and shape into pumpkin shape.
5. For the stem, gather about one inch from the top, twist and put a
rubber band around it. Push down for pumpkin shape.
6. Paint pumpkin shape with a brush or sponge leaving wrinkles
unpainted for contrast.
7. Let dry.
8. Place the green pipe cleaner around the top where the rubber band
is at the stem.
9. Add green leaves around stem if desired.

Monday, October 20, 2008

Morgan's new bed

At nap time, she practiced sleeping in the big bed.

Can you see Jaden's leg?

Morgan and Jaden are still in the bed together sleeping. They look so sweet. I had to remove Jaden's leg from off of Morgan's back, though. Earlier, Jaden had her hand on Morgan's back, and she was patting it (while still sleeping). I think they like the sleeping arrangement.

Sunday, October 19, 2008

What a difference!!

Henry~ a couple of weeks before he turns 8 years old
I checked my online account with Children International, so that I could put all of the children's birthdays on my calendar. What a wonderful surprise to find a new picture of Henry!!!! The top picture is his latest photo, and he is wearing one of the shirts that I sent him. The bottom picture was taken 2 years ago, and is his first sponsorship photo. I know I can't take all of the credit for his smile, but I do think that sponsorship is making a difference. I spoke with one of the sponsorship reps yesterday, and he told me that Henry will get his bed by the time of his birthday (October 28th), and he is putting a special note with the bed to let him know that it is for his birthday. I can't wait to see those pictures!!
I wish I could explain the feeling to those of you who have never sponsored a child before~ what it feels like to see the difference you make in their lives. It is an amazing feeling, and I believe that the giver gets more out of it than the receiver. Every time I get a picture of one of my children with a big (sincere) smile on their face it warms my heart.
By the way, for a limited time, when you sponsor a child through my "Lift One" page, one of my sponsored families will receive a food basket worth $50!!!! If seven kids are sponsored through this page, all seven of my children's families will get a food basket! Perfect for the Thanksgiving and holiday season. So, if you are thinking of sponsoring, please go through my site, or mention my name when you speak with a sponsor rep. Then, let me know, so that I can make sure my children get the food. If you have a particular child (of my 7) that you would like the food basket to go to, let me know, and I will specify that family.
http://www.liftoneproject.org/goto/ilovemykids08

Friday, October 17, 2008

Gonna Hop Hop Hop



Thursday was a great day for a picnic. I took the tent outside, and the kids played with it for awhile... Then, at lunch time, I surprised them with a picnic. Since we spent a lot of time outside, I thought it would be a great time to learn about grasshoppers and the letter G, so that was the lesson for the day (with activities, of course). In fact, I have some DVDs listed on Ebay right now that I, also, use with the kids. They have great stories like The Tortoise and the Hare, The Boy Who Cried Wolf, etc... It has songs for them to sing and dance to, and one of the songs fit the lesson perfectly... It goes like this:

Gonna Hop Hop Hop
Till I Drop Drop Drop
Gonna Hop Hop Hop
I'm Never Gonna Stop
Gonna Hop Hop Hop
Till I Drop
Hop ONE Time
Hop TWO Times
Hop THREE Times
Gonna Hop Hop Hop
Till I Drop...

Then, you start the song over again, and have them hop 4, 5, and 6 times (etc)
When the kids hear this song start, they go CRAZY!!!! So, they all hopped like grasshoppers.

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Jaden's second dance class

Morgan now fits into Jaden's cool size 5 and 6 shoes~ These were a big hit with Jaden's Hip Hop dance instructor!



I took a really great video of Jaden dancing. Unfortunately, my camera batteries died, and the video didn't save... So, this is the nly one that I have. It is jumpy (probably because of the low batteries). I will get a better video next week. By the way, the reason she does not face the camera is because they are told to watch themselves and the instructor in the mirror that is in front of them. Also, parents and siblings are hidden behind a wall. Of course, I HAVE to watch her, so I am not that well hidden, peeking around the corner of the wall. They just don't want the kids to get distracted. Morgan and Daddy got a chance to see her dance, too. Yea!

Books to read:

  • Diary of a Mad Mother to Be by Laura Wolf
  • Diary of a Mad Bride by Laura Wolf
  • The Nanny Diaries by Emma Mclaughlin and Nicola Kraus
  • Love in the Driest Season by Neely Tucker
  • Restavec by Jean-Robert Cadet